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did I accidentally sign up for an ashram? ;)

India has been on my list for many decades but there are so many places on my list it is often an unexpected catalyst that compels me to actually book the plane ticket.  In this case, it was celebrating a milestone birthday with my ex-husband.  Yeah, a plot twist before the trip even starts 😉  But we have stayed good friends and celebrating milestone birthdays with friends is kind of the theme for 2015…

That is why you will see me running through India at a breakneck pace, eschewing culture in favour of tiger stalking and living in a bubble… It is a different travel experience tagging along on someone else’s trip, especially in the developing world, but it adds an element of surprise.  I might have been less surprised had I not been working every minute until I got on the plane and done a bit of research but all the essential elements had been organized by others so I could just show up and see what I had gotten into…

One thing I had definitely gotten into was very little sleep!  We were going on 17 game safaris, which started even earlier than in Africa.  But first we had to get to Nagpur.  There aren’t a lot of flights so we had to be at the airport around the time early risers are getting up.  I realize it seemed strange to the lady frisking me at the Delhi airport and stamping my boarding pass far more than seemed necessary that I didn’t know where I was going but I did pay enough attention to know I was getting off at the first stop.  Obviously the travel agent had been a bit sub-par and we weren’t sitting together on the plane.

But I got off at the correct airport and we were off on our first major car journey in central India.  They were all supposed to take copious numbers of hours per our itinerary and I am sure at some point the estimates were correct but we got lucky on our first go and had roads with a lot of modern infrastructure so we breezed along and got to the lodge in record time (according to the itinerary at least).

I would get used to the traffic patterns in India but our first leg was a bit disconcerting.  Mostly it was because we had a lot of decent roads so our driver could gun it.  It felt like the Autobahn although I know we were never going really fast by first world standards.  Of course, on the Autobahn you are not in a car juggling pedestrians, motorbikes, tractors, giant trucks, other cars and COWS!

The freaky part was that you had to stop for cows (and they knew it) and occasionally there was another car and no shoulders – or lines for passing.  If playing chicken is your thing, you will love India!

Eventually I started to relax.  I am certain there are accidents – and do NOT DRIVE in India – but, like in Africa, if you let a local handle the traffic, your chances of survival are high.  They have lots of practice and just seem to anticipate the right move.  No one is trying to get killed – and no one is actually going that fast – so they just all accommodate each other.  It is a little frightening – but also impressive – to watch.  You think you are about to be part of a head-on collision but somebody finds enough space to squeeze back into the traffic and you pass by as though nothing special has occurred.  We sheltered developed world types who waste all that space in the middle of the road where we paint lines…

Needless to say, though, arriving at the lodge felt very relaxing!  Especially as it was modern – not only did I have a good private bathroom, I had a mini-fridge and air conditioning.

We arrived in time for lunch.  I like Indian food.  I was excited.  Lunch was pretty good.  Cafeteria style so not amazing but better than adequate and we asked for more of the wonderful lemonade we had been welcomed with upon our arrival.

We explored the property a bit enjoying the questionable weather that meant less heat but potential thunderstorms.  My first Indian safari began a few hours later.  We met our guide, Shirag.  He was very personable and interesting.  It felt like my fond memories of safari in Africa.

the first tiger

it is an actual tiger in the wild!

In India, you are required to bring along a park guide.  They don’t generally do much except take up space in the vehicle but it provides jobs in the developing world so I am OK with it.  Clemens is a serious photographer so he set the game plan right away.  He would sit in the second row of the jeep managing all his photographic devices.  I would be left to deal with all the others who had to climb aboard 🙂

Most of the time this worked really well as I had the first row all to myself.  Unlike Africa, the Indian safari vehicles are pretty basic and there is little cover for passengers.  Safaris normally occur in the dry season and it isn’t much of a problem.  I had not expected it to rain in April in India and had to pack light.  I’d brought a rain jacket to Cambodia and never worn it so thought I wouldn’t bother clogging my backpack with unnecessary stuff.

Don’t follow my example!  It’s funny how memory manages to fade the edges from bad experiences.  At first it was fine, just a bit of a drizzle.  I was freezing as I expected it to be 40 degrees not 15… and had dressed for 40.  The game drive was scheduled to last three hours.  I could – and probably should 🙂 – have just wimped out and traded places with the park guide as he was sitting beside the driver where there was some shelter but there was a tarp so I figured it would be fine.

tadoba wild boar

our first wildlife at tadoba

What I hadn’t anticipated was how dusty it is in the dry season in India.  Tadoba is covered in red sandstone like the outback in Australia.  So I spent most of the three hours with a very dirty tarp dripping reddish water on me as I attempted to take photos.  I would have just given up and headed back to the lodge as the animals also didn’t have a rain jacket so they were not likely to be posing for photos.  But I sucked it up and was rewarded by actually seeing a real live tiger in the wild!  We weren’t too close and it was hard to get a great photo but there were still some tigers left in the wild in India.  I also got see gaur, sambal, chital, dhole and langur – and the landscape is beautiful.

spotting gaur

gaur are giant cows

I was really excited though to get back to the lodge, have a shower, put on more clothes and have a beer with my dinner.  That’s when I discovered there was no alcohol at the lodge.  I’d started reading about India before I began the trip and would read three books about it during the trip.  The one common theme seemed to be spiritual awakening.  Someone was always going to an ashram or seeking out a guru.

That is just not my thing.  So it was strange the first night to contemplate whether I had accidentally signed up for something with all the same hallmarks – no alcohol, very little conversation, lots of time spent in silence waiting for something to happen and contemplating one’s own thoughts (three hours frozen and being dripped on under a claustrophobic plastic tarp to see a tiger lying under a tree far away for five minutes).

The first safari was the hardest… I still don’t want to go to an ashram but at least I know I can survive accidental de-tox and meditation – and the lemonade was delicious 😉

 

 

delhi three ways…

In a lot of places I visit I feel like a pioneer and the locals are excited I showed up.  In India, it was the exact opposite.  I came armed with so much information and other people’s opinions it was hard to know what to expect.  It is an amalgam of civilization employing lifestyles spanning several centuries all co-existing.  Getting my visa to visit had proven to be an exercise in frustration, misdirection and unnecessary bureaucracy so I was prepared to be tested upon arrival.

But instead we breezed through 21st century India.  The airport has been upgraded, customs was easy and the tour director was there to meet us and escort us to our luxury air-conditioned SUV.  Our guide pointed out the infrastructure improvements from hosting the Commonwealth games –  shiny new roads, hotels and metro stops.  We arrived in the wee hours of the morning so there was no traffic and we whizzed up to the gate of our hotel to try and get a tiny bit of sleep before our daunting day in Delhi due to begin in less than six hours.

We stayed at the The Claridges in New Delhi.  I was particularly entranced by the breakfast.  One of my favourite parts of India was lots of fresh, juicy watermelon.  Usually I both ate and drank it!  I likely should have been drinking coffee instead.  I didn’t realize we were going to see all of Delhi in one day!

http://www.claridges.com/the-claridges-newdelhi/overview.asp

We began our journey in 21st century India but our first tourist stop was going to take us back a few centuries.

I hauled a bunch of school supplies with me to India as I was told one of our activities in Delhi was to visit an NGO and I could donate them.  Our NGO experience ended up being the most memorable part of our whirlwind tour of Delhi.  Vishal is a product of the Salaam Baalak Trust.  It’s an organization that takes kids off the streets of Delhi and gives them a place to live and an education.  It’s a similar project to Tania’s work in Siem Reap albeit on a much larger scale.  Michelle Obama has visited Salaam Baalak Trust!

http://www.salaambaalaktrust.com/city-walks.html

Somehow I suspect the Secret Service did not let her participate in the Salaam Baalak Trust city walk.  It is her loss.  Luckily I had been reading books about India before I got on the plane so came prepared to be shocked.  I think because I was so prepared for shock – and had been living a very insulated life my first few hours in India – I wasn’t shocked..  But India is not for the faint of heart.

The city walk starts from just behind the central Delhi train station and continues down some alleys and side streets.  On our walk to meet Vishal, we noted the well-fed rats scampering close to our feet and the mountains of garbage arranged like a modern art installation against the sides of buildings.  Then we saw the dead rat covered in scavenger insects.  The only part that I found unnerving were all the stray dogs lazily wandering past us as we loitered in the alley waiting for the tour to begin.  I am too cheap to get rabies shots (I also think they are really painful) so just try to follow the travel medicine doctor’s advice to not get bitten by a rabid dog or feisty bat…

I think I was paying more attention to the dogs than they were paying to me and our tour eventually got underway and the streets were more benign 🙂  We were joined by a whole gaggle of young girls out to see the world as part of some youth outreach program.  Vishal was 18 so he must have been having a heyday having all these pretty young girls hanging on his every word.  And the dude was charismatic in addition to being Bollywood handsome.  He told me he wanted to get into tourism and I assured him he would be a success.

keeping the alley clean...

keeping the alley clean…

The tour takes you through some of the streets and alleys of old Delhi full of stray wires, throngs of people and accommodation for backpackers experiencing the “real” India.  It was definitely a stark contrast to The Claridges.  One of the tour highlights is trying to guess the purpose for the religious paintings on the wall in a narrow alley.  None of the girls knew the answer.  Vishal enthusiastically explained that they were there to discourage people from urinating against the wall.  It’s a very religious place so peeing on a goddess just doesn’t seem right…

The tour ends with a visit to the headquarters of the trust, where I was able to lighten my suitcase by donating my supplies, make a donation and see the photographic evidence of Michelle’s visit.  India is a fascinating, but often frustrating, place so it’s nice to see an organization making positive change.

Now that we had been forced out of our bubble we were ready for more

typical delhi street

typical delhi street

“real India”.  Our guide introduced us to a rickshaw driver and we were off to see Chandni Chowk.  He was pedalling a bicycle so it was hardly at a breakneck pace but navigating through all the chaotic traffic made it feel more like being on safari.  One area that is particularly colourful and interesting is the marriage market, chock-a-block with saris in every possible hue, extravagant and sparkly jewelry and myriad traditional decorations.  Trying to capture it on camera was a daunting task but I just kept

wedding prep

wedding prep

clicking as we bounced around.

impressive red fort

impressive red fort

Then it was time to do a whirlwind tour of important buildings…Jama Mazid (the largest mosque in India), the historic Red Fort, India Gate and Parliament.  All are impressive and worth the visit but less interesting than the chaotic streets of old Delhi.

As a foreigner, you have to get your rupees in India.  The plan was to hit Deutsche Bank to get a good rate but it ended up that we had arrived on a public holiday so instead were taken to a moneychanger.  I didn’t do much research before I left on exchange rates but it’s likely worthwhile.  It also would probably help to not spend only one day in Delhi and have it be a public holiday 🙂  It’s not clear whether I got ripped off or not but I only exchanged a little there and succumbed to just exchange money at the hotel.  It seemed that you got a better rate on a major currency.  The upside of our visit to the moneychanger was that I got to try some tea 🙂

I am fairly obsessed with chai.  It was the Turkey experience again.  We were seated.  Tea was poured.  A sales pitch was presented.  You could leave without buying something but it would be awkward.  And I wanted to bring some chai home so I went for the buy a lot and get one free offer.

By that point we were exhausted and trying to convince the driver to take us back to the hotel but Indians can be quite wily.  I think it comes from living in a very complicated country.  So, ostensibly, we were on our way back to the hotel… eventually…

But first we had to acquire another guide who would take us to an even older part of Delhi, back when the Hindus were having a good time living la dolce vita before the meanie Mughuls showed up and wrecked everything.  He was a university professor and provided an excellent tour but we were living on vapours by that point so I can’t remember the entire history lesson…

We did see an interesting early Hindu temple.  And then he dragged us through the streets of a very

cows rule!

cows rule!

real part of Delhi, full of cows, rats and garbage but also full of colour and people going about their daily lives.  It’s the kind of walk that makes privileged westerners really appreciate how easy their lives are.  Every time I turn on the kitchen tap I marvel at how lucky I am to have copious quantities of water that I can just pour into a glass and drink.

Eventually we convinced everyone that we really wanted to go back to the hotel.  It seemed a little dull after our wild day in Delhi.  I did have likely the best meal of my entire India trip and had an expensive but lovely cocktail in the bar, which felt more New York than New Delhi.  I was back in 21st century India having spanned seven centuries of history in one day!!!

 

 

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