who knew ear plugs were so sexy ;)
As previously noted, music at SXSW is likely the most overwhelming part of the experience. I think I am actually going to be able to get the SXSW posts finished before I get on another plane! Perhaps we will also amble around Angkor Wat a bit… perhaps nothing interesting will happen in Europe and I will have to resort to nostalgia… let’s hope it doesn’t come to that 😉
So… watching live music in Austin. As noted in an earlier post, it took me a while to get the hang of it. You really have to push yourself to quit reading the guide and go see SOMETHING! And I discovered doing the critic’s picks in the Austin Chronicle was no guarantee of success.
All of my favourite moments were the result of serendipity rather than careful planning. I decided I would check out the British Showcase since a large part of my music collection comes with a British accent.
There were some good bands, nothing as great as the Toronto Showcase I wrote about earlier, but definitely a pleasant way to spend an afternoon. And the coolest part of SXSW Music is that it brings out lots of fans – of musical genres, musical periods or rabid fans of local indie bands you’ve never heard of.
Some of the British bands were worth checking out – Public Service Broadcasting, Casual Sex, Young Fathers.
http://publicservicebroadcasting.net/
http://www.theguardian.com/music/2013/mar/11/new-band-day-casual-sex
You can go and try and track down Coldplay or Lady Gaga. They know a lot about marketing so of course they are there getting lots of free publicity but I would recommend looking for the hidden gems… and chatting with everyone you can so that you can hear their stories and share tips on what to do next…
And, who knows, you might have a little romance while you are looking for additions to your CD collection. The one thing you likely want to pack though is earplugs! I assume all the musicians and road crews are deaf. There is no reason the amps need to be turned up that high but you aren’t likely to change it.
The British Showcase was especially loud. I noticed quickly that all the staff – and some patrons – were sporting ear plugs! I mentioned my longing for ear plugs to my new friend Craig and, all of a sudden, I had a pair – in purple no less! Believe me, It is very easy to crush on a guy who buys you ear plugs at SXSW!
The atmosphere is very casual though and there is a lot of drinking so I found you rarely see anyone again. It’s quite possible they wake up the next day not remembering that you’ve met J And you’re there for the music after all 😉
But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t trade mobile numbers with people and see what happens… you might just have as spectacular an end to your SXSW experience as I did.
I met John the penultimate night of SXSW at the Scottish portion of the British Showcase. When he texted me the next night I was at the Lit Lounge waiting to see some band the Austin Chronicle had given the thumbs up to but there wasn’t much happening for a couple of acts so I took up his offer to meet at the Palm Door to see someone called Res who was famous in Philadelphia, close to his hometown (Pittsburgh). She was good but then the music changed to rap so I headed back to the original schedule.
While I was at the Palm Door, John told me he might come and see the final band of the night at the Lit Lounge as they were from Pittsburgh and the lead singer had a “gay crush” on him. While I was waiting for him to decide, I spied a seat (rare at SXSW) and the two other guys at the table told me they were there for “The Ugly Beats”. They were big fans and, once it was time for the band to come on, we had to get up close to the stage and dance!
Somewhere in the middle of their show, John showed up. The other guys headed out once their band was done so it was just John and I for “The Cynics”. The lead singer gave an inspired performance and we got to talk to the band when the show was over.
http://www.gethip.com/site/bands/cynics/
John had to drive home to San Antonio so he walked me to the Driskill and kissed me more dramatically than most final shots in romantic comedies. A passionate kiss in front of the Driskill after watching a show where the guy knows the band… I couldn’t have written a more perfect ending to SXSW 😉
So… be nice, pace the Shiner and you won’t be watching rom-coms on the big screen – you will be living them 🙂




finding real VIPs…
One of the most exciting aspects of attending SXSW is that it attracts an interesting, eclectic crowd. Of course, not all interesting people are created equal – and I am a connoisseur 🙂 I’ve started to think of them as “my tribe”.
Almost all of my friendships were an act of serendipity – and generally include a good narrative. Meeting V was no different 🙂
I felt like a voyeur at SXSW. Most people come with an agenda, especially for the interactive conference. But I was just there to soak up the atmosphere and celebrate my birthday so every day was a random walk. I looked for catalysts or recommendations to inspire the day’s plan.
The easiest day to plan was when my new friend Quin was pitching his business idea in the Startup Village at the Hilton. I wanted to make sure I had a seat for his presentation so sat through 8 pitches from young entrepreneurs. Fascinating – and they are so impressive!
I had an entertaining time with the angel investor sitting beside me and got a better idea what professional investors are looking for. You can check out Quin and his revolutionary new footwear technology at the plantiga website:
http://www.plantiga.com/#about
He was busy being courted by venture capitalists and meeting basketball players so I didn’t get to hang out with him in Austin but going to watch him was how I met V and had one of the most memorable evenings of my life.
It might never have happened had it not been pouring rain at the end of the seminars. We decided to hide inside and have a drink hoping for the rain to stop. The rain never stopped but, without it, V and I might have just gone our separate ways and the fascinating conversation would never have happened.
It’s not often you meet someone who totally gets it when you describe the Ngorongoro Crater as “the Disney version of the Serengeti”. Someone who encourages you to be an intellectual snob.
SXSW is a haven for snobs like me. I grew up in a trailer park so I’m never snobby about things you can’t control about your past. But I am a bit snobby about how you live your future. Whether you try. Whether you have the confidence to learn things and develop your own opinions.
I am snobby about whether you are a VIP – but likely not the way you might suspect. V doesn’t even know yet but he was the inspiration for my repurposing of that term. It came about because we went to an event that night that we thought was a comedy performance by Seth Myers, but instead was Seth showing up and standing behind a velvet rope with the other VIPs while the proletariat stood on the other side of the rope and took photos with Seth when he came close to the Berlin Wall divide.
Seth seemed like a nice guy and I doubt most people there thought much about it but V and I wondered just what separated the people on either side of the rope… and which side likely had the more interesting people…
I am fascinated by the concept of celebrity, especially in these days when it seems almost anyone can get 15 minutes of fame, especially if you are willing to let cameras invade your privacy or act like a moron.
I’m certainly interested in meeting people whose accomplishments I admire. I recently came across the reply to a fan letter I wrote to Robertson Davies as a teenager. His reply was fascinating and insightful (it will get into the blog at some point). I would be thrilled to meet Jon Stewart because he is so damn smart and really tries to engage people and get them to care about important things. He is one of my heroes.
But most of my heroes are not famous. I have zero interest in meeting most of the people the world currently seems to consider VIPs… which gets us to the redefinition V has inspired. I AM interested in VIPs… the difference is that my VIPs are VERY INTERESTING PEOPLE. I would encourage you to seek them out. They are the one that may not rock – but they WILL rock your world. Thanks, V 🙂
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